The International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Rivers State branch, has called on parents and guardians to actively involve their children in decision making processes within the home.
The Chairperson of FIDA Rivers, Tamunonemi Life-George, made the appeal during a school debate competition organised to commemorate the 2026 Children’s Day celebration in Port Harcourt. The event, which attracted participation from various secondary schools, focused on the theme, “Children’s Rights and Child Participation.”
Life-George stressed that children should no longer be sidelined in matters affecting them, noting that societal changes and increased exposure require parents to adopt more inclusive approaches.
She explained that involving children in family decisions helps build responsibility and accountability, adding that children who are carried along are more likely to contribute positively to resolving issues within the home.
According to her, FIDA has continued to educate both parents and children on the importance of child rights, emphasizing that children have a voice and must be heard.
Delivering a keynote address, Nteiro Elijah highlighted the need for a balanced approach to child participation, stating that while children should be allowed to express themselves, with proper guidance.
He noted that unlike in the past where children had little or no say, modern realities demand that they be given opportunities to speak and contribute, particularly as future leaders.
Elijah, however, cautioned that exposure should be carefully managed, especially in areas such as social media, where parental monitoring is necessary. He advised against excessive restriction, warning that it could have unintended consequences, including rebellious behaviour.
He further urged parents to avoid placing emotional burdens on children, such as involving them in marital disputes, describing such actions as harmful to a child’s development.
Some participating students expressed appreciation to FIDA for organising the debate, describing it as an opportunity to build confidence, expand knowledge, and interact with peers from other schools.
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A student, Peter Godswill, commended the initiative, noting that it would help shape future leaders and positively impact society. Another participant, Celestine Victory of Archdeacon Crowther Memorial Girls School, said the competition helped her understand her rights and improve her performance skills.
Similarly, a student from Baptist High School, Solomon, said the programme strengthens the importance of allowing children to speak freely, adding that open communication strengthens trust between parents and children.
Baptist High School emerged overall winner of the debate competition, with prizes including cash and gift items presented to participants. The event also featured entertainment, food, and music.
The official theme for the 2026 Children’s Day celebration is “Future Now: Promoting Inclusion for Every Nigerian Child.”
